Marvin Gaye
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
:crackup:Seriously? said:I think he would have more success doing this: http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=ee2_1350525560.
Your comment makes me say, "seriously" lol it's really not hard what the guy did, and thanks for the liveleak link !Seriously? said:**** game, but more bollocks then I had at that age or still have currently. Something I could do more, just grow a pair and go chat with girls. It's a numbers game.
flashpoint said:"i just got a new phone and i need some numbers, can i have yours?"
and when she says " i dont understand" he takes his game to the next level and comes back with "i need some numbers so i have people i can talk to" HAHAHA ... talk about DHV :crackup:
or
"why would do you want to have my number? - because i think you are kind of cute" - gets her wet within an instant
or
"do you have a boyfriend?"
or
"i am michael.SILENCE. i am michael" - super creepy haha
or
" i could have gone more alpha, talk to you directly you know?" classic lol
now what is wrong with that? guess all? boy says he has read "the game" and it totally has changed the way he interacts with girls. not to the better it seems though![]()
but you gotta give him some credit for trying. that's more than most people do. hope he has some sort of learning ability so that all the effort is not for nothing. plus we are talking highschool kids here so cant blame him for lack of insight.
Yeah, I am! Some people on the board know what I look likeScottMustaine said:Something tells me OP is the guy on that clip.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This exactly sums up what was going on in this vid. You seem to find amazing value in getting phone numbers instead of getting to know the girl. Are you going to take her phone number out to dinner or something?BeginningDJ said:You wanna buy it?
What is it?
So do you wanna buy it?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.