Marvin Gaye
Senior Don Juan
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup:Seriously? said:I think he would have more success doing this: http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=ee2_1350525560.
Your comment makes me say, "seriously" lol it's really not hard what the guy did, and thanks for the liveleak link !Seriously? said:**** game, but more bollocks then I had at that age or still have currently. Something I could do more, just grow a pair and go chat with girls. It's a numbers game.
flashpoint said:"i just got a new phone and i need some numbers, can i have yours?"
and when she says " i dont understand" he takes his game to the next level and comes back with "i need some numbers so i have people i can talk to" HAHAHA ... talk about DHV :crackup:
or
"why would do you want to have my number? - because i think you are kind of cute" - gets her wet within an instant
or
"do you have a boyfriend?"
or
"i am michael.SILENCE. i am michael" - super creepy haha
or
" i could have gone more alpha, talk to you directly you know?" classic lol
now what is wrong with that? guess all? boy says he has read "the game" and it totally has changed the way he interacts with girls. not to the better it seems though![]()
but you gotta give him some credit for trying. that's more than most people do. hope he has some sort of learning ability so that all the effort is not for nothing. plus we are talking highschool kids here so cant blame him for lack of insight.
Yeah, I am! Some people on the board know what I look likeScottMustaine said:Something tells me OP is the guy on that clip.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This exactly sums up what was going on in this vid. You seem to find amazing value in getting phone numbers instead of getting to know the girl. Are you going to take her phone number out to dinner or something?BeginningDJ said:You wanna buy it?
What is it?
So do you wanna buy it?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.