“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Young chick blowing up my phone

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So I was "farming" POF as I usually do.. sending mass emails to random chicks.

I usually go for older chicks because they're easier, but apparently I sent something to a chick 12 years younger than myself.

After only 2 short emails (in one she said there were "too many crazy people" on POF) she gave me her cell number. I gave her mine back and since then she's been completely blowing up my phone with text messages.

To the point where if I don't get back to her within an hour or so she sends a "Are you there? What are you up to?" message.

I'm used to texting a couple of times to set up a meet and then silence until the meet. But I can't set something up with her right now because I'm booked solid for the next week.

Is this a mid-20s kind of thing? She's just sending me mundane observations and general chitchat. Older chicks don't do that until they feel we're in a bit of a "relationship." She's fairly attractive.. 8 body and 7 face. Partly Hispanic too, whom I don't usually date. Not sure if this has anything to do with it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zarky said:
So I was "farming" POF as I usually do.. sending mass emails to random chicks.

I usually go for older chicks because they're easier, but apparently I sent something to a chick 12 years younger than myself.

After only 2 short emails (in one she said there were "too many crazy people" on POF) she gave me her cell number. I gave her mine back and since then she's been completely blowing up my phone with text messages.

To the point where if I don't get back to her within an hour or so she sends a "Are you there? What are you up to?" message.

I'm used to texting a couple of times to set up a meet and then silence until the meet. But I can't set something up with her right now because I'm booked solid for the next week.

Is this a mid-20s kind of thing? She's just sending me mundane observations and general chitchat. Older chicks don't do that until they feel we're in a bit of a "relationship." She's fairly attractive.. 8 body and 7 face. Partly Hispanic too, whom I don't usually date. Not sure if this has anything to do with it.

I hope you realize 99.999% of chicks who are on POF are nutjobs, sl0res etc.

That being said how do you know it's the chick in the pictures? Have her text you a pic of herself. She could have old pics up or someone elses and is desperate for a good looking dude.

Someone who texts random strangers that much after two emails is either a nut, desperate, not the person in the pictures and most likely all of it.

Chicks give out their numbers a lot on there to good looking dudes. But texting like crazy all the time? Somethings wrong..
 

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bro, I've been doing online dating for a decade, I think I know what's out there.

I'm specifically wondering, not about generalities regarding the "nutjobs" online, but about youngish 25 year olds who carry on extended text conversations. Is this the norm?
 

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This might be easier than you are making it out to be. I can think of two conclusions you should draw from this:

1) She has high interest and wants you on her radar.
2) She'll be a tease. Want your attention. Be a general flake towards any attempt to actually hang out.

Is it NORMAL? I would say that it isn't strange she is texting you a lot, but normally girls have a support network of numbers to choose from regardless. She is thinking about you so that has to be a plus. If she is like this even after you two agreed to hang out then why even bother getting coffee somewhere. Odds are she'll be DTF in 1 hour max.

Lemmie put it this way, girls send thousands of messages a month. There are "how fast can you text?" contests.

tl;dr

It's normal.
 

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^^^ cool thanks that addresses my question helpfully. I guess I'm curious as to how she could have high IL after basically 2 throwaway emails online. Which is why I'm wondering if it's standard practice for younger chicks to move the convo to text as soon as possible.

I guess I'll just have to wait and see. I usually can't relate at all to chicks under 30 so I guess I'm just worried about messing this one up, or losing interest myself if the chick keeps texting me all the time.

I'm guessing at this point she's looking for orbiters. I'll have to wait until I have a free night and can suggest something to do. If she disappears I'll know.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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