Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"you would make an interesting friend"

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i decided to try this line out when first approaching girls. most of you have heard this from David De Angelo's methods. Is it a good idea to tell a girl that she would make an interesting friend the first time you meet her, get her # or her contact info, then try to build the attraction to get her to chase you?

while i agree that this would get the girl thinking, 'why does he want to just be a friend, is there something different about him, is there something wrong with me?' i get the impression that this would only work on high status beautiful women. also the girls at this age dont seem to be as experienced with how the whole approaching game works so im afraid they will actually take that literally and make friends with me. i guess it all comes down to how well i can generate that attraction between us.

any ideas on this? any success stories?

thanks! ill let you know how it turns out for me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I belive the idea is during the first date not when you first pick them up and i have field tested this line and it works beutifully on all types of women.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I belive the idea is during the first date not when you first pick them up and i have field tested this line and it works beutifully on all types of women.
Yeah...I think that would probably creep someone out if you used it as an opening line. She'll be thinking, "You think I'd be an interesting friend?? You don't even KNOW me. Why do I interest you? Because I'm attractive? Because I have a p*ssy? How TYPICAL!! :rolleyes: "

Have her show value before you credit her with it.
 

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i would use it towards the end, after i have had some conversation with her, so by then she has showed some value.
 
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