"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"you would make an interesting friend"

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i decided to try this line out when first approaching girls. most of you have heard this from David De Angelo's methods. Is it a good idea to tell a girl that she would make an interesting friend the first time you meet her, get her # or her contact info, then try to build the attraction to get her to chase you?

while i agree that this would get the girl thinking, 'why does he want to just be a friend, is there something different about him, is there something wrong with me?' i get the impression that this would only work on high status beautiful women. also the girls at this age dont seem to be as experienced with how the whole approaching game works so im afraid they will actually take that literally and make friends with me. i guess it all comes down to how well i can generate that attraction between us.

any ideas on this? any success stories?

thanks! ill let you know how it turns out for me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I belive the idea is during the first date not when you first pick them up and i have field tested this line and it works beutifully on all types of women.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I belive the idea is during the first date not when you first pick them up and i have field tested this line and it works beutifully on all types of women.
Yeah...I think that would probably creep someone out if you used it as an opening line. She'll be thinking, "You think I'd be an interesting friend?? You don't even KNOW me. Why do I interest you? Because I'm attractive? Because I have a p*ssy? How TYPICAL!! :rolleyes: "

Have her show value before you credit her with it.
 

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i would use it towards the end, after i have had some conversation with her, so by then she has showed some value.
 
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