"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"you would make an interesting friend"

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i decided to try this line out when first approaching girls. most of you have heard this from David De Angelo's methods. Is it a good idea to tell a girl that she would make an interesting friend the first time you meet her, get her # or her contact info, then try to build the attraction to get her to chase you?

while i agree that this would get the girl thinking, 'why does he want to just be a friend, is there something different about him, is there something wrong with me?' i get the impression that this would only work on high status beautiful women. also the girls at this age dont seem to be as experienced with how the whole approaching game works so im afraid they will actually take that literally and make friends with me. i guess it all comes down to how well i can generate that attraction between us.

any ideas on this? any success stories?

thanks! ill let you know how it turns out for me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I belive the idea is during the first date not when you first pick them up and i have field tested this line and it works beutifully on all types of women.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I belive the idea is during the first date not when you first pick them up and i have field tested this line and it works beutifully on all types of women.
Yeah...I think that would probably creep someone out if you used it as an opening line. She'll be thinking, "You think I'd be an interesting friend?? You don't even KNOW me. Why do I interest you? Because I'm attractive? Because I have a p*ssy? How TYPICAL!! :rolleyes: "

Have her show value before you credit her with it.
 

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i would use it towards the end, after i have had some conversation with her, so by then she has showed some value.
 
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