"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You want to start pulling girls..? Then act like one.

Scars

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I don't mean get a boob job and start wearing a dress. But rather, have you noticed that most girls seem to talk out of their @$$? They will say one thing then do the complete opposite. This is one thing I noticed about my buddy of mine who is a complete natural. He will say the most fvcked up and rudest sh!t to a girl. He makes it seem like every girl has no chance with him, that he's better than them and that they should stop wasting their time. (Kind of sounds familiar right?) How does he get away with it? His eyes. With his mouth he is saying "fvck you" but with his eyes he's really saying "I want to fvck you." and any girl with half a brain will pick up on it. I've seen him be completely rude to hottest of chicks and yet they still act so flirty towards him, because they know deep down that he is sexually attracted to them and he puts it out there. Throw some funny into the mix and you've got a recipe for a steamy night. I guess all I'm trying to say is, take advantage of body language. Your mouth could be saying one thing while your body is saying the complete opposite. This is the story of a guy who has complete control of what his body is saying at all times.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Duffdog

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That only works if the male is very attractive.
 

Nutz

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I'll throw my hat into the ring on this one and agree that if she's not attracted from the start or worse is actually repulsed by his physical appearance, then this won't work. Girls are not logical for the most part which is why if their gina already tingles for you it doesn't matter what's coming out of your mouth. He could just as easily by saying nonsense in french, but if her gina tingles and he's being sexual with his body language then he's in.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CaptainJ

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lol I do this all the time. It's part of being a jerk, and it works soooo well. I sometimes insult girls, yet I have a cheeky smile and hungry eyes, which makes themstart to flirt back.
 

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Nutz said:
I'll throw my hat into the ring on this one and agree that if she's not attracted from the start or worse is actually repulsed by his physical appearance, then this won't work. Girls are not logical for the most part which is why if their gina already tingles for you it doesn't matter what's coming out of your mouth. He could just as easily by saying nonsense in french, but if her gina tingles and he's being sexual with his body language then he's in.
Lmao..."gina"? :crackup:
 
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