"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You want to start pulling girls..? Then act like one.

Scars

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I don't mean get a boob job and start wearing a dress. But rather, have you noticed that most girls seem to talk out of their @$$? They will say one thing then do the complete opposite. This is one thing I noticed about my buddy of mine who is a complete natural. He will say the most fvcked up and rudest sh!t to a girl. He makes it seem like every girl has no chance with him, that he's better than them and that they should stop wasting their time. (Kind of sounds familiar right?) How does he get away with it? His eyes. With his mouth he is saying "fvck you" but with his eyes he's really saying "I want to fvck you." and any girl with half a brain will pick up on it. I've seen him be completely rude to hottest of chicks and yet they still act so flirty towards him, because they know deep down that he is sexually attracted to them and he puts it out there. Throw some funny into the mix and you've got a recipe for a steamy night. I guess all I'm trying to say is, take advantage of body language. Your mouth could be saying one thing while your body is saying the complete opposite. This is the story of a guy who has complete control of what his body is saying at all times.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That only works if the male is very attractive.
 

Nutz

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I'll throw my hat into the ring on this one and agree that if she's not attracted from the start or worse is actually repulsed by his physical appearance, then this won't work. Girls are not logical for the most part which is why if their gina already tingles for you it doesn't matter what's coming out of your mouth. He could just as easily by saying nonsense in french, but if her gina tingles and he's being sexual with his body language then he's in.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaptainJ

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lol I do this all the time. It's part of being a jerk, and it works soooo well. I sometimes insult girls, yet I have a cheeky smile and hungry eyes, which makes themstart to flirt back.
 

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Nutz said:
I'll throw my hat into the ring on this one and agree that if she's not attracted from the start or worse is actually repulsed by his physical appearance, then this won't work. Girls are not logical for the most part which is why if their gina already tingles for you it doesn't matter what's coming out of your mouth. He could just as easily by saying nonsense in french, but if her gina tingles and he's being sexual with his body language then he's in.
Lmao..."gina"? :crackup:
 
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