"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You want to start pulling girls..? Then act like one.

Scars

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I don't mean get a boob job and start wearing a dress. But rather, have you noticed that most girls seem to talk out of their @$$? They will say one thing then do the complete opposite. This is one thing I noticed about my buddy of mine who is a complete natural. He will say the most fvcked up and rudest sh!t to a girl. He makes it seem like every girl has no chance with him, that he's better than them and that they should stop wasting their time. (Kind of sounds familiar right?) How does he get away with it? His eyes. With his mouth he is saying "fvck you" but with his eyes he's really saying "I want to fvck you." and any girl with half a brain will pick up on it. I've seen him be completely rude to hottest of chicks and yet they still act so flirty towards him, because they know deep down that he is sexually attracted to them and he puts it out there. Throw some funny into the mix and you've got a recipe for a steamy night. I guess all I'm trying to say is, take advantage of body language. Your mouth could be saying one thing while your body is saying the complete opposite. This is the story of a guy who has complete control of what his body is saying at all times.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That only works if the male is very attractive.
 

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I'll throw my hat into the ring on this one and agree that if she's not attracted from the start or worse is actually repulsed by his physical appearance, then this won't work. Girls are not logical for the most part which is why if their gina already tingles for you it doesn't matter what's coming out of your mouth. He could just as easily by saying nonsense in french, but if her gina tingles and he's being sexual with his body language then he's in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaptainJ

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lol I do this all the time. It's part of being a jerk, and it works soooo well. I sometimes insult girls, yet I have a cheeky smile and hungry eyes, which makes themstart to flirt back.
 

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Nutz said:
I'll throw my hat into the ring on this one and agree that if she's not attracted from the start or worse is actually repulsed by his physical appearance, then this won't work. Girls are not logical for the most part which is why if their gina already tingles for you it doesn't matter what's coming out of your mouth. He could just as easily by saying nonsense in french, but if her gina tingles and he's being sexual with his body language then he's in.
Lmao..."gina"? :crackup:
 
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