Marvin Gaye
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You rate this woman out of ten go
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
It is a 8
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
By Vancouver standards she is 11+.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Shes a dime piece.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
4, and I'm feeling particularly generous today.
In truth, though, it really does depend upon "types" and what we are personally attracted to.
A full-body comparison with another woman would be interesting. We've all see those studies where a certain ink-drawn body type is universally rated as the most attractive by man of all cultures and races. It's that chart where ten female figures are drawn and the men rate them according to attractiveness. There is one drawing that always rates way above the other nine.
In truth, though, it really does depend upon "types" and what we are personally attracted to.
A full-body comparison with another woman would be interesting. We've all see those studies where a certain ink-drawn body type is universally rated as the most attractive by man of all cultures and races. It's that chart where ten female figures are drawn and the men rate them according to attractiveness. There is one drawing that always rates way above the other nine.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Lauren London is not the 'best black woman'
Doctrine Dark
Don Juan
10/10 easily.
hey troll dont try and swing this thread into that discussion when theres two threads about it already. noone mentioned it so shut the hell up. op just asked what guys thought of her...majority have her as attractive and theres a bunch more where that came from. so take that to the other thread okTIC said:
@tyson
you should check out super model Oluchi. sexy girl, and def more so in her younger days.
Marvin Gaye
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I think "types" do play a major factor in attraction; however I also believe things like self confidence, humor, and that certain something in ya woman's expression or words will rev a guy's engine. it's interesting to see different guys views on thisAtom Smasher said:
I'm not sure if a side by side body pic would be so helpful, Lauren London seems to falls into category of a healthy-looking woman; those tests in my experience are pretty bland
Thanks for the post (not talking to the stubborn members hating in the black girls threads
)"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
9 then personality either adds or subtracts up to 3 points. If she is a total c*nt then she could be a 6. if she is awesome could be a 12.
People who voted less than 7 - hilarious, what is your hand rated at?
edit - who is that in your youtube video link. Read the comments
People who voted less than 7 - hilarious, what is your hand rated at?
edit - who is that in your youtube video link. Read the comments
Marvin Gaye
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Lol I was seriously expecting you to spew some crap about to many "Eurocentric features" or not being black enoughTIC said:
I didn't just find her either I've been in love with her since seeing ATL at age of 14....:crazy:
Solomon
Master Don Juan
dang a "4" for Lauren London? then I must be smashing 1's
shorty is a "9" in my book
peace
p.s. I'm curious to the guy who voted her below a "7" what type of women you pull and post some pics of, cause if that's the case then the rating system is useless (WHICH IMO it is cause this thread just proves everyone has a different "type" or taste)
shorty is a "9" in my book
peace
p.s. I'm curious to the guy who voted her below a "7" what type of women you pull and post some pics of, cause if that's the case then the rating system is useless (WHICH IMO it is cause this thread just proves everyone has a different "type" or taste)
cordoncordon
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The guys rating her a 4? Cmon. Give me a freaking break. 4 means she is below average, and she is most assuredly above average. I'm a white guy who isn't even attracted that much to black women, but even I can see she is a solid 7.5-9 based on each person's taste. Nice body, nice hair, nice face. A 4 is someone that has none of those characteristics.
I would LOVE to see the girls these guys are dating that they rate higher than a 4. Have a hard time believing they are at least 3 points better than the OP's girl. Start posting some pics! I have of my gf all the time. What are you waiting for? Lets see them.
I would LOVE to see the girls these guys are dating that they rate higher than a 4. Have a hard time believing they are at least 3 points better than the OP's girl. Start posting some pics! I have of my gf all the time. What are you waiting for? Lets see them.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.