Marvin Gaye
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You rate this woman out of ten go
- Thread starter Marvin Gaye
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
It is a 8
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
By Vancouver standards she is 11+.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Shes a dime piece.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
4, and I'm feeling particularly generous today.
In truth, though, it really does depend upon "types" and what we are personally attracted to.
A full-body comparison with another woman would be interesting. We've all see those studies where a certain ink-drawn body type is universally rated as the most attractive by man of all cultures and races. It's that chart where ten female figures are drawn and the men rate them according to attractiveness. There is one drawing that always rates way above the other nine.
In truth, though, it really does depend upon "types" and what we are personally attracted to.
A full-body comparison with another woman would be interesting. We've all see those studies where a certain ink-drawn body type is universally rated as the most attractive by man of all cultures and races. It's that chart where ten female figures are drawn and the men rate them according to attractiveness. There is one drawing that always rates way above the other nine.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Lauren London is not the 'best black woman'
Doctrine Dark
Don Juan
10/10 easily.
hey troll dont try and swing this thread into that discussion when theres two threads about it already. noone mentioned it so shut the hell up. op just asked what guys thought of her...majority have her as attractive and theres a bunch more where that came from. so take that to the other thread okTIC said:
@tyson
you should check out super model Oluchi. sexy girl, and def more so in her younger days.
Marvin Gaye
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I think "types" do play a major factor in attraction; however I also believe things like self confidence, humor, and that certain something in ya woman's expression or words will rev a guy's engine. it's interesting to see different guys views on thisAtom Smasher said:
I'm not sure if a side by side body pic would be so helpful, Lauren London seems to falls into category of a healthy-looking woman; those tests in my experience are pretty bland
Thanks for the post (not talking to the stubborn members hating in the black girls threads
)"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
9 then personality either adds or subtracts up to 3 points. If she is a total c*nt then she could be a 6. if she is awesome could be a 12.
People who voted less than 7 - hilarious, what is your hand rated at?
edit - who is that in your youtube video link. Read the comments
People who voted less than 7 - hilarious, what is your hand rated at?
edit - who is that in your youtube video link. Read the comments
Marvin Gaye
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Lol I was seriously expecting you to spew some crap about to many "Eurocentric features" or not being black enoughTIC said:
I didn't just find her either I've been in love with her since seeing ATL at age of 14....:crazy:
Solomon
Master Don Juan
dang a "4" for Lauren London? then I must be smashing 1's
shorty is a "9" in my book
peace
p.s. I'm curious to the guy who voted her below a "7" what type of women you pull and post some pics of, cause if that's the case then the rating system is useless (WHICH IMO it is cause this thread just proves everyone has a different "type" or taste)
shorty is a "9" in my book
peace
p.s. I'm curious to the guy who voted her below a "7" what type of women you pull and post some pics of, cause if that's the case then the rating system is useless (WHICH IMO it is cause this thread just proves everyone has a different "type" or taste)
cordoncordon
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The guys rating her a 4? Cmon. Give me a freaking break. 4 means she is below average, and she is most assuredly above average. I'm a white guy who isn't even attracted that much to black women, but even I can see she is a solid 7.5-9 based on each person's taste. Nice body, nice hair, nice face. A 4 is someone that has none of those characteristics.
I would LOVE to see the girls these guys are dating that they rate higher than a 4. Have a hard time believing they are at least 3 points better than the OP's girl. Start posting some pics! I have of my gf all the time. What are you waiting for? Lets see them.
I would LOVE to see the girls these guys are dating that they rate higher than a 4. Have a hard time believing they are at least 3 points better than the OP's girl. Start posting some pics! I have of my gf all the time. What are you waiting for? Lets see them.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.