avrilishot
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I kinda agree I admit im kinda a nerd.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You r all wankers + the only shag u get is wiv ur hand!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No. Not in my case. Please speak for yourself.
I'll tell you how I got here:
I never got why I always ended up with the lessest or no girl in my group of friends (even though I always had a good time when I'd go out) so I thought it would be good to improve this part of my life. I got on the mailbag of DYD (David D.) and found it very interesting stuff and decided to google for more stuff of him. And pop there was this forum.
And now I visit it cause I like to read experiences of other people and cause you can hear some funny stories etc. which I can use to my advantage.
And it's also really fun to laugh of all these idiots who post while being really frustrated. This dude was so frustrated he couldn't even type a proper topic title :crackup:
Re: Re: Re: You r all wankers + the only shag u get is wiv ur hand!
do i show my pic so then i'm able to credibly give advice? -because my pic would matter so much for that.
and risk someone i know coming here and giving out many details they know about my life?
talk to "CLOONEY" for example. happened to him.
yeah its a dilema isn't it.
do i show my pic so then i'm able to credibly give advice? -because my pic would matter so much for that.
and risk someone i know coming here and giving out many details they know about my life?
talk to "CLOONEY" for example. happened to him.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I found these links posted by Dark Haired Alpha;
DrBeard Looks Like A Pigeon
DrBeard Plays Tiger Game
DrBeard Talks to a Girl
DrBeard Grows Some Balls
DrBeard As A Bad Boy
DrBeard Goes To A Resturant
Also;
DrBeard And Friends Big Party
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Its a whole fukin storybook, this should be put into the DJ bible
DrBeard Looks Like A Pigeon
DrBeard Plays Tiger Game
DrBeard Talks to a Girl
DrBeard Grows Some Balls
DrBeard As A Bad Boy
DrBeard Goes To A Resturant
Also;
DrBeard And Friends Big Party
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Its a whole fukin storybook, this should be put into the DJ bible
WTF... is this guy for real ? if we are so called nerds then u are deffenetly a FREAK and not the good kind.... WhAt the **** is up with the tiger game....
If u dont like it in this forum then dont come here, getting bent over by a few remarks isent very mature either... Grab some balls and get ur life together and forget about the hole tiger game ****... ,that was a really disturbing image, An dont go around talking to girls about reletive dieing and then wanting to mack with them.....
And dont putt two fruits in your pants and pretend that theyr ur balls......
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo
Master Don Juan
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