"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"You need to open up more"

AmIAFC

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When a girl says this, does it mean I'm doing something right? I tell jokes, KINO, flirt a bit, but when she asks me question about myself, I answer in a vague/****y manner as to not spoil any mystery. Granted, I don't do it ALL the time, but only during those times where I sense she's eager to know what I was doing, like during the weekend and such. She gets irritated when I don't spoil the beans, usually saying, "Whatever."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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C00L

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she wants to turn u AFC. stick to ur guns...i mean u gotta let her know some stuff...so feed her the appetizers but never a full course meal.
 

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+1 for what COOL said. Don't stonewall, but reveal information about yourself slowly & in small bits. Women love doing this detective work. And don't EVER talk about your hang-ups or childhood traumas. If she brings them up, e.g. suppose you grew up with no dad, minimize it by saying something like "Yeah it was hard but that was a long time ago."
 

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Yes it means she is interested in getting to know you better. You are on her mind.
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Yes it means she is interested in getting to know you better. You are on her mind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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