"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"You need to open up more"

AmIAFC

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When a girl says this, does it mean I'm doing something right? I tell jokes, KINO, flirt a bit, but when she asks me question about myself, I answer in a vague/****y manner as to not spoil any mystery. Granted, I don't do it ALL the time, but only during those times where I sense she's eager to know what I was doing, like during the weekend and such. She gets irritated when I don't spoil the beans, usually saying, "Whatever."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C00L

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she wants to turn u AFC. stick to ur guns...i mean u gotta let her know some stuff...so feed her the appetizers but never a full course meal.
 

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+1 for what COOL said. Don't stonewall, but reveal information about yourself slowly & in small bits. Women love doing this detective work. And don't EVER talk about your hang-ups or childhood traumas. If she brings them up, e.g. suppose you grew up with no dad, minimize it by saying something like "Yeah it was hard but that was a long time ago."
 

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Yes it means she is interested in getting to know you better. You are on her mind.
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Yes it means she is interested in getting to know you better. You are on her mind.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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