You make me feel relaxed

[jhonny9546]

Women around me, lovers, friends, even cousins, often say things like:

• “You make me feel relaxed.”
• “You’re so calm, it puts me at ease.”
• “You’re quiet, and it helps me unwind.”

After that, they open up completely, talk non-stop, and rarely break eye contact. It feels like they reach a level of intimacy and don’t want to leave the interaction. It is like that their emotional chaos settles in the presence of someone calm and grounded.

In my teens, I was often used as an emotional sponge. But after learning about boundaries, through SoSuave and similar sources, I’ve learned to listen without trying to fix everything. Being calm and nonjudgmental is rare and attractive, once women feel you won’t let them drain you, they respect that even more.

What's your mileage on this?

 

[New_Journey]

Being calm and nonjudgmental is rare and attractive, once women feel you won’t let them drain you, they respect that even more.

This is a super power, being able to connect with her, listening to her and then be a sexual being like fvcking her good. They will miss you the entire time you're not with them, it is an aphrodisiac for women.

 

[jhonny9546]

listening to her and then be a sexual

That is actually built in within me, but how do you make it sexual, while keeping that connection is so hard to not broke their "confidential state" to have her to say to you "oh, so you was listening me, just to **** me"?

 

[New_Journey]

"oh, so you was listening me, just to **** me"?

This thinking is not coming from your own mental point of origin. This is in her frame, you're thinking what she might think or say, and that's is keeping you like that. Fvck what she thinks, if you wanna fvck her, so be it.

You: " Not really, I mean, I do wanna put this c0ck deep inside of you, but you are also interesting to talk to"

The trick is to escalate, be bold, kiss her, grab her, you are a sexual being, and when you see a sexy girl, you wanna have sex with her. Women are turned on when guys are bold.