You make me feel relaxed

jhonny9546

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Women around me, lovers, friends, even cousins, often say things like:

  • “You make me feel relaxed.”
  • “You’re so calm, it puts me at ease.”
  • “You’re quiet, and it helps me unwind.”

After that, they open up completely, talk non-stop, and rarely break eye contact. It feels like they reach a level of intimacy and don’t want to leave the interaction. It is like that their emotional chaos settles in the presence of someone calm and grounded.

In my teens, I was often used as an emotional sponge. But after learning about boundaries, through SoSuave and similar sources, I’ve learned to listen without trying to fix everything. Being calm and nonjudgmental is rare and attractive, once women feel you won’t let them drain you, they respect that even more.

What's your mileage on this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Being calm and nonjudgmental is rare and attractive, once women feel you won’t let them drain you, they respect that even more.
This is a super power, being able to connect with her, listening to her and then be a sexual being like fvcking her good. They will miss you the entire time you're not with them, it is an aphrodisiac for women.
 
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