"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You look at a girl and she looks away immediately?

DamHE

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Hi,

I've had this happen to me a couple times over the last week and I started wondering about it.

When I walk down the street or walk in the hallway at school, I'll look at a girl and it turns out that she was already looking at me and as soon as I look at her, she looks away. Keep in mind they are strangers. What does that mean?

Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jay Jay

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Nothing.

We are socially conditioned to fear eye contact.

People snatch their eyes away when caught looking.

It MIGHT means she thinks you attractive.

But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her.

JJ
 

asam

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"But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her."

right on dude! totally agree
 

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Jay Jay said:
Nothing.

We are socially conditioned to fear eye contact.

People snatch their eyes away when caught looking.

It MIGHT means she thinks you attractive.

But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her.

JJ

On a side note, it depends on which way she looks. If she looks upwards or sort of to the side, she has high self-esteem or is a snobby b!tch (or both). If she looks down, she has low self esteem and is intimidated by you. But it doesn't really matter either way. I gotta agree with J here that it only means she MIGHT be interested in you.

A better test to see if she was interested in approach would be to see if you get a second eye contact with her, smile at her, and if she smiles back, you're in like a twin. Go open.
 
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