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You look at a girl and she looks away immediately?

DamHE

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Hi,

I've had this happen to me a couple times over the last week and I started wondering about it.

When I walk down the street or walk in the hallway at school, I'll look at a girl and it turns out that she was already looking at me and as soon as I look at her, she looks away. Keep in mind they are strangers. What does that mean?

Thanks.
 

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Nothing.

We are socially conditioned to fear eye contact.

People snatch their eyes away when caught looking.

It MIGHT means she thinks you attractive.

But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her.

JJ
 

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"But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her."

right on dude! totally agree
 

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Jay Jay said:
Nothing.

We are socially conditioned to fear eye contact.

People snatch their eyes away when caught looking.

It MIGHT means she thinks you attractive.

But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her.

JJ

On a side note, it depends on which way she looks. If she looks upwards or sort of to the side, she has high self-esteem or is a snobby b!tch (or both). If she looks down, she has low self esteem and is intimidated by you. But it doesn't really matter either way. I gotta agree with J here that it only means she MIGHT be interested in you.

A better test to see if she was interested in approach would be to see if you get a second eye contact with her, smile at her, and if she smiles back, you're in like a twin. Go open.
 
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