"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You look at a girl and she looks away immediately?

DamHE

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Hi,

I've had this happen to me a couple times over the last week and I started wondering about it.

When I walk down the street or walk in the hallway at school, I'll look at a girl and it turns out that she was already looking at me and as soon as I look at her, she looks away. Keep in mind they are strangers. What does that mean?

Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jay Jay

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Nothing.

We are socially conditioned to fear eye contact.

People snatch their eyes away when caught looking.

It MIGHT means she thinks you attractive.

But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her.

JJ
 

asam

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"But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her."

right on dude! totally agree
 

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Jay Jay said:
Nothing.

We are socially conditioned to fear eye contact.

People snatch their eyes away when caught looking.

It MIGHT means she thinks you attractive.

But that isn't worth **** unless you go talk to her.

JJ

On a side note, it depends on which way she looks. If she looks upwards or sort of to the side, she has high self-esteem or is a snobby b!tch (or both). If she looks down, she has low self esteem and is intimidated by you. But it doesn't really matter either way. I gotta agree with J here that it only means she MIGHT be interested in you.

A better test to see if she was interested in approach would be to see if you get a second eye contact with her, smile at her, and if she smiles back, you're in like a twin. Go open.
 
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