"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you know how flaking puts guys on edge

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Ok...like when a girl flakes on dudes...dudes get butt hurt and whatever.
What if I start cancelling dates that seem to have IL.
Ok....she keeps texting. Making sure we are good to go for friday.
But I might have to cancel last minute.
When I cancel last minute, will that moist the panties more or less?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thatfeel

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You'll have a better outcome by just making yourself less available than by wasting your time with a "fake" flake. Chances are most girls already have other dudes lined up waiting to go. Unless you have a legit reason to cancel last minute of course, like a relative is in a really bad accident and needs help or something.
 

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Well...it's not a fake flake . .work seems to be needing me the next day in the a.m. so I'm leaning towards cancelling on her so I'm well rested.

Except, she's 90 kg of freaky and I want that.
And she's been checking in to make sure it's a go for friday.

So would flaking raise her interest like it does these dudes who always ask about flaking girls
 

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Some of the things that apply to men doesn't apply to women because of their numerous options.

Honestly flaking does not increase interest level if anything flaking reduces interest level if the person flaked on has much value.

I like a girl less if she flakes or shows any sign of low quality.

If she wants to see you, strike while its hot.

Use work as a good excuse.

Meet with her talk a bit then invite her to the crib to relax, she already knows you're tired from work and would justify your request as "reasonable" therefore not triggering ASD.
 

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The last 2 times girls flaked on me I banged other plates that night. I nexted both of them and hadn't had sex with either of them but I wanted to go out so I set up a date with someone else, now switch to women who will almost always have a bunch of options and you get the picture. If you're getting them all hot and bothered wanting to go on the date and you cancel they are probably going to turn that onto someone else more often then not.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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90kg? thats 40kg too much for me, My god, she's either 7 ft tall or a real porker
 

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Fake flakes won't faze most women, given the amount of options they have.

It's no different than claiming you nexted a girl you haven't f**ked. You really just moved on because you saw she wasn't interested.
 

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Well...it's not a fake flake . .work seems to be needing me the next day in the a.m. so I'm leaning towards cancelling on her so I'm well rested.

Except, she's 90 kg of freaky and I want that.
And she's been checking in to make sure it's a go for friday.

So would flaking raise her interest like it does these dudes who always ask about flaking girls
I about threw up in my mouth after reading 90kg...good grief...
 
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