"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You have in stage cancer with maybe 6 months to live how do you treat yourself?

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Travel to the second world country for the latest treatment stay in the US and get radiation or chemotherapy or go to cannabis route what do you choose?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you have the resources and you like being alive, fight, it tooth and nail. Be aware of scams look into experimental programs provided to people that are end stage.

I knew someone with end-stage bone marrow cancer that got into a study at a medical school, this person was in complete 100% remission in six months. And remains that way till this day two years later.
 

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Travel to the second world country for the latest treatment stay in the US and get radiation or chemotherapy or go to cannabis route what do you choose?
Cannabis is only going to provide pain relief but a CBD topical applied could help if the cancer is close to the skin surface. Alkaline water, processed sugar avoidance and Vitamin C would also help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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6 months to live can turn into 20 years.

I'd probably go on a radical elimination diet and fast 16-24 hrs per day, making sure to get plenty of exercise and avoid stress. I'd probably also start an insane supplement protocol based on what David Sinclair has recommended.

Not sure what I'd do to pass the time, I definitely wouldn't work for anyone...I'd probably just rack up tons of CC debt and do whatever felt most meaningful, probably travel and meet interesting people.
 

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My golf coach was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer in 1987. He was a junior in college at the time... they gave him 2 years max. He did traditional treatment... but also went on a strict diet... and a ton of holistic stuff. Made it until 2016... almost 30 years after his diagnosis. He went on to have a family... and witness both his daughters get married.

If you have something worth fighting for I would use eastern wisdom with western medicine to try and beat it on all fronts.
 

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In that situation it would be okay to have sex with a single mother.

But seriously, it’s a crapshoot imo. I knew someone who had access to the best healthcare and facilities go much quicker than another on just Medicaid. In both cases I would attest the terms “battle” and “fight” were valid.

I would probably do a lot of psychedelic drugs if I ever find myself in that situation.

Burzynski: Cancer is Serious Business is an interesting documentary.
 

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If you have stage 4 cancer. It’s over. One may get lucky and extend their life but let’s face it. …. Game over.
I’d just over seas. Have fun. Party. FTW.
 

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There are several ways to seek out cancer studies:

  1. Talk to your doctor or oncologist: Your doctor can provide you with information about any ongoing clinical trials or cancer studies that may be relevant to your condition.
  2. Search online databases: You can search online databases of clinical trials such as ClinicalTrials.gov or the National Cancer Institute's website. These databases allow you to search for trials based on the type of cancer you have, the location of the trial, and other criteria.
  3. Contact cancer advocacy organizations: There are many cancer advocacy organizations that can provide you with information about ongoing studies and trials. These organizations can also provide you with support and guidance throughout your cancer journey.
  4. Consult with a medical librarian: Medical librarians are trained to help people find relevant medical information. They can help you search databases, find studies, and locate other resources that may be helpful to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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6 months to live can turn into 20 years.

I'd probably go on a radical elimination diet and fast 16-24 hrs per day, making sure to get plenty of exercise and avoid stress. I'd probably also start an insane supplement protocol based on what David Sinclair has recommended.

Not sure what I'd do to pass the time, I definitely wouldn't work for anyone...I'd probably just rack up tons of CC debt and do whatever felt most meaningful, probably travel and meet interesting people.
Whos sinclair?
 
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