Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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you have her when she says.....

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if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
she has alphad you and placed you in a pedestal above her. she believes that you are special and are a prize to her. she will make everything easy for you cause she wants to please you so you will keep liking her. this is the exact response that most women have to celebs models and very rich and good looking men
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, that's what my current girl said to me.
 
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Most people on here would give you a big "No sh*t Sherlock" but of course this is quite obvious.

There are other things a woman will tell you to put you on a pedestal. If you hear any of those things, you choose, not her. But since most guys aren't models, very good looking, rich, celebs, etc. BOOM! In come the sh*t tests and the bs. Then the woman has the choosing power.

That's why clubs (especially in the perimeter of I-285) are full of guys trying to out-alpha each other. And the girls will usually try to get some chumps to finance their night out on the town.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
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That's great.
Now all you have to do is figure out how to get her to say it to you.
 
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zekko - show her that YOU are that guy.

I just got this text "I am not even going to try to be smooth. Cancelled my plans for tonight, do you want to hang out?"

The way I got here was:

1. Not ever being too eager. Always always pulling back a bit and using "IF" propositions

we can hang out IF you live close to place X (i know she does)
you can see me IF you don't get too frisky
etc.


always just being very mellow, not revealing much - NEVER taking about accoplishments or boasting, just stuff i've done and try to frame it in a "fits in this topic"


they always assume the worst- so if u are texting with someoen and phone rings when u are with her just don't say anything, say "the wife" or after awhile say "grandma" when she says wife :)

Don't answer questions. TAKE YOUR sweeeeet time. Even if she says can we hang out you reply with "is your game tight?" or just something that is not definite - that stuff has to come from ACTIONS. we go here, we do this. but in speech be vague


at least this had worked well for me, may be she just really likes me. oh, before I even met I said "I think someone really likes me" and she countered with "who, the other girl i saw you with?" to which I replied "you have a good eye for fun girls... or must have been looking in the mirror"

game set match gents
 
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DonGorgon said:
if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
she has alphad you and placed you in a pedestal above her. she believes that you are special and are a prize to her. she will make everything easy for you cause she wants to please you so you will keep liking her. this is the exact response that most women have to celebs models and very rich and good looking men
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I agree but what's more important are the non-verbal cues
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nismo-4 said:
Most people on here would give you a big "No sh*t Sherlock" but of course this is quite obvious.

There are other things a woman will tell you to put you on a pedestal. If you hear any of those things, you choose, not her. But since most guys aren't models, very good looking, rich, celebs, etc. BOOM! In come the sh*t tests and the bs. Then the woman has the choosing power.

That's why clubs (especially in the perimeter of I-285) are full of guys trying to out-alpha each other. And the girls will usually try to get some chumps to finance their night out on the town.
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lol yup and thats how atlanta clubs make all their money..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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actaully,


when a girl says this, RUN like the ****ens.


do you really understand what she is saying? get past the yay i got someone interested in me bs

she is sayign my self esteem is so ****ing low i would not expect a normal ass mother****ing well adjsted man to give me a second look.

don't make the mistake of thinking you are that ****ing special. you aren't.

every time i had a woman say that to me, the woman turned out to be a head case or bat **** crazy. the last one that said that ended up busting my head in my house when i told her i was seeing someone else. oh, i didn't event ell her, she was stalking my house when i had another woman there. we weren't' even dating. i posted the story here about 3 years back, my dog tore her a new one.

the one before that turned out to be a meth head.

but yes, a well adjusted normal self esteem woman doesn't say **** like that.

you are a great guy, okay. i get that. you have alot going for you, okay. that's a normal woman respionse. any woman would be lucky to date you is a normal response.

i never though a guy like you would be in terested in me should set off all kinda of mother****ing sirens in your head.
 
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Kind of agree with back bencher. If she is saying stuff like that to you, she thinks you are out of her league, and although she will go with you, before long the distrust and accusations of cheating will follow. It will never make for a healthy relationship.
 
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