"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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you have her when she says.....

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if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
she has alphad you and placed you in a pedestal above her. she believes that you are special and are a prize to her. she will make everything easy for you cause she wants to please you so you will keep liking her. this is the exact response that most women have to celebs models and very rich and good looking men
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, that's what my current girl said to me.
 
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Most people on here would give you a big "No sh*t Sherlock" but of course this is quite obvious.

There are other things a woman will tell you to put you on a pedestal. If you hear any of those things, you choose, not her. But since most guys aren't models, very good looking, rich, celebs, etc. BOOM! In come the sh*t tests and the bs. Then the woman has the choosing power.

That's why clubs (especially in the perimeter of I-285) are full of guys trying to out-alpha each other. And the girls will usually try to get some chumps to finance their night out on the town.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
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That's great.
Now all you have to do is figure out how to get her to say it to you.
 
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zekko - show her that YOU are that guy.

I just got this text "I am not even going to try to be smooth. Cancelled my plans for tonight, do you want to hang out?"

The way I got here was:

1. Not ever being too eager. Always always pulling back a bit and using "IF" propositions

we can hang out IF you live close to place X (i know she does)
you can see me IF you don't get too frisky
etc.


always just being very mellow, not revealing much - NEVER taking about accoplishments or boasting, just stuff i've done and try to frame it in a "fits in this topic"


they always assume the worst- so if u are texting with someoen and phone rings when u are with her just don't say anything, say "the wife" or after awhile say "grandma" when she says wife :)

Don't answer questions. TAKE YOUR sweeeeet time. Even if she says can we hang out you reply with "is your game tight?" or just something that is not definite - that stuff has to come from ACTIONS. we go here, we do this. but in speech be vague


at least this had worked well for me, may be she just really likes me. oh, before I even met I said "I think someone really likes me" and she countered with "who, the other girl i saw you with?" to which I replied "you have a good eye for fun girls... or must have been looking in the mirror"

game set match gents
 
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DonGorgon said:
if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
she has alphad you and placed you in a pedestal above her. she believes that you are special and are a prize to her. she will make everything easy for you cause she wants to please you so you will keep liking her. this is the exact response that most women have to celebs models and very rich and good looking men
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I agree but what's more important are the non-verbal cues
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nismo-4 said:
Most people on here would give you a big "No sh*t Sherlock" but of course this is quite obvious.

There are other things a woman will tell you to put you on a pedestal. If you hear any of those things, you choose, not her. But since most guys aren't models, very good looking, rich, celebs, etc. BOOM! In come the sh*t tests and the bs. Then the woman has the choosing power.

That's why clubs (especially in the perimeter of I-285) are full of guys trying to out-alpha each other. And the girls will usually try to get some chumps to finance their night out on the town.
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lol yup and thats how atlanta clubs make all their money..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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when a girl says this, RUN like the ****ens.


do you really understand what she is saying? get past the yay i got someone interested in me bs

she is sayign my self esteem is so ****ing low i would not expect a normal ass mother****ing well adjsted man to give me a second look.

don't make the mistake of thinking you are that ****ing special. you aren't.

every time i had a woman say that to me, the woman turned out to be a head case or bat **** crazy. the last one that said that ended up busting my head in my house when i told her i was seeing someone else. oh, i didn't event ell her, she was stalking my house when i had another woman there. we weren't' even dating. i posted the story here about 3 years back, my dog tore her a new one.

the one before that turned out to be a meth head.

but yes, a well adjusted normal self esteem woman doesn't say **** like that.

you are a great guy, okay. i get that. you have alot going for you, okay. that's a normal woman respionse. any woman would be lucky to date you is a normal response.

i never though a guy like you would be in terested in me should set off all kinda of mother****ing sirens in your head.
 
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Kind of agree with back bencher. If she is saying stuff like that to you, she thinks you are out of her league, and although she will go with you, before long the distrust and accusations of cheating will follow. It will never make for a healthy relationship.
 
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