"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you have her when she says.....

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if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
she has alphad you and placed you in a pedestal above her. she believes that you are special and are a prize to her. she will make everything easy for you cause she wants to please you so you will keep liking her. this is the exact response that most women have to celebs models and very rich and good looking men
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, that's what my current girl said to me.
 
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Most people on here would give you a big "No sh*t Sherlock" but of course this is quite obvious.

There are other things a woman will tell you to put you on a pedestal. If you hear any of those things, you choose, not her. But since most guys aren't models, very good looking, rich, celebs, etc. BOOM! In come the sh*t tests and the bs. Then the woman has the choosing power.

That's why clubs (especially in the perimeter of I-285) are full of guys trying to out-alpha each other. And the girls will usually try to get some chumps to finance their night out on the town.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
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That's great.
Now all you have to do is figure out how to get her to say it to you.
 
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zekko - show her that YOU are that guy.

I just got this text "I am not even going to try to be smooth. Cancelled my plans for tonight, do you want to hang out?"

The way I got here was:

1. Not ever being too eager. Always always pulling back a bit and using "IF" propositions

we can hang out IF you live close to place X (i know she does)
you can see me IF you don't get too frisky
etc.


always just being very mellow, not revealing much - NEVER taking about accoplishments or boasting, just stuff i've done and try to frame it in a "fits in this topic"


they always assume the worst- so if u are texting with someoen and phone rings when u are with her just don't say anything, say "the wife" or after awhile say "grandma" when she says wife :)

Don't answer questions. TAKE YOUR sweeeeet time. Even if she says can we hang out you reply with "is your game tight?" or just something that is not definite - that stuff has to come from ACTIONS. we go here, we do this. but in speech be vague


at least this had worked well for me, may be she just really likes me. oh, before I even met I said "I think someone really likes me" and she countered with "who, the other girl i saw you with?" to which I replied "you have a good eye for fun girls... or must have been looking in the mirror"

game set match gents
 
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DonGorgon said:
if a woman says this to you or to someone else whne she is talking about you , you have her complete attraction and interest :
"I didn't expect a guy like you to be interested in me"
she has alphad you and placed you in a pedestal above her. she believes that you are special and are a prize to her. she will make everything easy for you cause she wants to please you so you will keep liking her. this is the exact response that most women have to celebs models and very rich and good looking men
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I agree but what's more important are the non-verbal cues
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nismo-4 said:
Most people on here would give you a big "No sh*t Sherlock" but of course this is quite obvious.

There are other things a woman will tell you to put you on a pedestal. If you hear any of those things, you choose, not her. But since most guys aren't models, very good looking, rich, celebs, etc. BOOM! In come the sh*t tests and the bs. Then the woman has the choosing power.

That's why clubs (especially in the perimeter of I-285) are full of guys trying to out-alpha each other. And the girls will usually try to get some chumps to finance their night out on the town.
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lol yup and thats how atlanta clubs make all their money..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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actaully,


when a girl says this, RUN like the ****ens.


do you really understand what she is saying? get past the yay i got someone interested in me bs

she is sayign my self esteem is so ****ing low i would not expect a normal ass mother****ing well adjsted man to give me a second look.

don't make the mistake of thinking you are that ****ing special. you aren't.

every time i had a woman say that to me, the woman turned out to be a head case or bat **** crazy. the last one that said that ended up busting my head in my house when i told her i was seeing someone else. oh, i didn't event ell her, she was stalking my house when i had another woman there. we weren't' even dating. i posted the story here about 3 years back, my dog tore her a new one.

the one before that turned out to be a meth head.

but yes, a well adjusted normal self esteem woman doesn't say **** like that.

you are a great guy, okay. i get that. you have alot going for you, okay. that's a normal woman respionse. any woman would be lucky to date you is a normal response.

i never though a guy like you would be in terested in me should set off all kinda of mother****ing sirens in your head.
 
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Kind of agree with back bencher. If she is saying stuff like that to you, she thinks you are out of her league, and although she will go with you, before long the distrust and accusations of cheating will follow. It will never make for a healthy relationship.
 
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