"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You have beautiful eyes", what to come back with?

SinJester

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oops double post
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Master Disaster

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Why waste time. She wants you if she's gonna say something like that? All you need is one sentence, and you're in the bed.

She: "You have beautiful eyes."

You: "No, what's beautiful is what these eyes are seeing."

She & You: Bownchicka-wawn-wawn.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Espi said:
Agreed...I believe that a simple "thank you" shows that you are confident...I find it kind of frustrating when I compliment someone and the person replies, "Well, not really...I just got lucky..."

Accept compliments with a simple thank you.
Exactly . And it shows insecurity .

It should be a simple " Thank you " but not a THANK YOU *looking down * * being intimated * . You should act like she said I LEFT YOUR NOTEBOOK ON YOUR DESK , and you reply with OK .That kind of thank you .

Also , no need to compliment back right after she compliments you . Its non sincere .
 

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Espi said:
While I think that your saying "thanks" may seem cliche, I also consider it a genuine response that emits confidence...you could probably use her compliment, though, to easily number close...here's something you might respond with:

"Thanks...I'm really flattered to receive a compliment from such a beautiful woman. Listen, I gotta go, but we should continue this conversation. How can I contact you?"

Cool response Espi. Though a simple 'Thanks/Thank you' exudes confidence.
 

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i think some of you guys are overreacting with the "Simple is best" ideology. Yes Simple is best, but if you are naturally C&F as i am, a response like the one i mentioned isn't strange, unexpected, or bad.

I'd say that yes, keeping it simple is the easiest and most likely to succeed way, but if your natural demeanor is one that is playful and funny, it shows much more confidence and comfort being able to say thanks in a whole different way.

Granted, not everybody can do it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She: "You have pretty eyes"

You: "Wow, hittin on me already and I don't even know your name....." and let it develop from there
 

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She: You have really pretty eyes.
Me: Thank you. That's a sweet thing to say. Look, I can't stay and talk now, but why don't you give me your phone number. You can tell me more about my eyes;)

Or something along those lines. That would be my style anyway.
 
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