teacha
Senior Don Juan
stop fvcking quoting me you fvcking devil-worshipper!!! :trouble:Lucifero said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You guys won't believe what just HAPPEND! Got Slapped.
- Thread starter Clark Kent
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
:crackup:, I don't worship the Devil.teacha said:
mustfirstregister
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spit on her hahahahahha i thought it only happens in the movies.
MurdocNiccals
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Wow that was pretty ****ing low...
I would have just held her wrists.
I would have just held her wrists.
john_trenor
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I feel your pain disappointments suck, but it is essential that you keep your cool and move on. Rejections from our previous attempts stick in our subconscious mind and if you let them make approaching beautiful women in the future that much harder. In fact, the “memory” of previous rejections cause us to sabotage our future approaches… even months after a bad experience, thus completely crippling our game. If she wasn’t worth it she’s not going to be worth it. Just keep on going and don’t lower your standards instead reach higher. 
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Clark Kent
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I'd just like to get this story straight, from the start. When the car pulled up, it was there for atleast 15 minutes outside of the club, theres a small liquor store next to it. I could feel someone watching me, but subconsciously I didn't look into the car. Plus one of my friend's friends was talking about some voodoo/weirdo stuff in my ear, which creeped me out, so I was abit out of it.
So, eventually when I looked into the car, properly. I saw what looked like the girl who flaked earlier. In reality, she didn't technically ''FLAKE''. I just asked if she was around, she said no, she's at a House Party and that she'll be back around 4am. I had asked her out once before, prior 2 weeks ago but she was busy doing homework or so she says, so that kinda triggered my anguish a little.
Anyway, I went up to the car, friendly vibe. I said "Hey, is that you, I thought you were at a House Party'' She took this with offense, I'm 100% convinced there was an altercation with her where ever she was that night and it made her emotional, because she answered me in such a manner, which wasn't warranted. Just very, unfriendly. So I looked at the driver, laughed and said, "Enjoy your success"
This is what made her get awry. My problem was, trying to talk to her again, after she was being a b!tch. She lives near me, so again, I coincedently see her parked up with this dude near her house, he also lives near her, from what she said. Anyway, she gets out the car again, and I ask her "Where all this drama is coming from?, whats up with you, U mad? She then got angry and told me to "Stop Laughing!"
GUYS, I WASN'T BUTTHURT ABOUT HER FLAKING, I WAS LMAO AT THE WHOLE ORDEAL.
Anyway, she kept telling me to stop laughing. She said, so many people where taking the mick out of her, treating her like a d!ck and some other stuff. She starts crying, throwing her hands up and said I topped it all off. I suspect something happend at the houseparty with her friends.
Anyway, 3 weeks ago. When I got her number. She actually asked me to take her number and felt I was obliged to take it, initially I wasn't going to take it down and just felt good making her and her friends laugh in my cold approach. She actually WALKED BACK, for me to take her number. LOL. Thats whats funny about all this.
Anyway, maybe spitting was abit much, but I wasn't about to hit her, so spitting at her, felt good at the time. Sorry if you don't like it, White Knights. Oh and btw, the Black guy did see what happend, he told her to stop shouting and closed the car door on her.
So, eventually when I looked into the car, properly. I saw what looked like the girl who flaked earlier. In reality, she didn't technically ''FLAKE''. I just asked if she was around, she said no, she's at a House Party and that she'll be back around 4am. I had asked her out once before, prior 2 weeks ago but she was busy doing homework or so she says, so that kinda triggered my anguish a little.
Anyway, I went up to the car, friendly vibe. I said "Hey, is that you, I thought you were at a House Party'' She took this with offense, I'm 100% convinced there was an altercation with her where ever she was that night and it made her emotional, because she answered me in such a manner, which wasn't warranted. Just very, unfriendly. So I looked at the driver, laughed and said, "Enjoy your success"
This is what made her get awry. My problem was, trying to talk to her again, after she was being a b!tch. She lives near me, so again, I coincedently see her parked up with this dude near her house, he also lives near her, from what she said. Anyway, she gets out the car again, and I ask her "Where all this drama is coming from?, whats up with you, U mad? She then got angry and told me to "Stop Laughing!"
GUYS, I WASN'T BUTTHURT ABOUT HER FLAKING, I WAS LMAO AT THE WHOLE ORDEAL.
Anyway, she kept telling me to stop laughing. She said, so many people where taking the mick out of her, treating her like a d!ck and some other stuff. She starts crying, throwing her hands up and said I topped it all off. I suspect something happend at the houseparty with her friends.
Anyway, 3 weeks ago. When I got her number. She actually asked me to take her number and felt I was obliged to take it, initially I wasn't going to take it down and just felt good making her and her friends laugh in my cold approach. She actually WALKED BACK, for me to take her number. LOL. Thats whats funny about all this.
Anyway, maybe spitting was abit much, but I wasn't about to hit her, so spitting at her, felt good at the time. Sorry if you don't like it, White Knights. Oh and btw, the Black guy did see what happend, he told her to stop shouting and closed the car door on her.
teacha
Senior Don Juan
Clark Kent said:
Which one is it?Clark Kent said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
Clark Kent said:
stick to your story.Clark Kent said:
Clark Kent
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She Flaked 2 weeks ago. On the approach a week before that, I suggested taking her out on set day. Agreed, set day came but said she had homework to finish and her girlfriend was about to come over. I was p!ssed about the first girl who I called, and said I lived too far away. Look in my profile. READ THE ORIGINAL THREAD.
Black dude WAS being a white knight, however I was refering to a comment made by another poster who made it look like I was the aggressor, when infact she initiated physical violence first.
Cheers!