teacha
Senior Don Juan
stop fvcking quoting me you fvcking devil-worshipper!!! :trouble:Lucifero said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You guys won't believe what just HAPPEND! Got Slapped.
- Thread starter Clark Kent
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lucifero
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:crackup:, I don't worship the Devil.teacha said:
mustfirstregister
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spit on her hahahahahha i thought it only happens in the movies.
MurdocNiccals
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Wow that was pretty ****ing low...
I would have just held her wrists.
I would have just held her wrists.
john_trenor
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I feel your pain disappointments suck, but it is essential that you keep your cool and move on. Rejections from our previous attempts stick in our subconscious mind and if you let them make approaching beautiful women in the future that much harder. In fact, the “memory” of previous rejections cause us to sabotage our future approaches… even months after a bad experience, thus completely crippling our game. If she wasn’t worth it she’s not going to be worth it. Just keep on going and don’t lower your standards instead reach higher. 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I'd just like to get this story straight, from the start. When the car pulled up, it was there for atleast 15 minutes outside of the club, theres a small liquor store next to it. I could feel someone watching me, but subconsciously I didn't look into the car. Plus one of my friend's friends was talking about some voodoo/weirdo stuff in my ear, which creeped me out, so I was abit out of it.
So, eventually when I looked into the car, properly. I saw what looked like the girl who flaked earlier. In reality, she didn't technically ''FLAKE''. I just asked if she was around, she said no, she's at a House Party and that she'll be back around 4am. I had asked her out once before, prior 2 weeks ago but she was busy doing homework or so she says, so that kinda triggered my anguish a little.
Anyway, I went up to the car, friendly vibe. I said "Hey, is that you, I thought you were at a House Party'' She took this with offense, I'm 100% convinced there was an altercation with her where ever she was that night and it made her emotional, because she answered me in such a manner, which wasn't warranted. Just very, unfriendly. So I looked at the driver, laughed and said, "Enjoy your success"
This is what made her get awry. My problem was, trying to talk to her again, after she was being a b!tch. She lives near me, so again, I coincedently see her parked up with this dude near her house, he also lives near her, from what she said. Anyway, she gets out the car again, and I ask her "Where all this drama is coming from?, whats up with you, U mad? She then got angry and told me to "Stop Laughing!"
GUYS, I WASN'T BUTTHURT ABOUT HER FLAKING, I WAS LMAO AT THE WHOLE ORDEAL.
Anyway, she kept telling me to stop laughing. She said, so many people where taking the mick out of her, treating her like a d!ck and some other stuff. She starts crying, throwing her hands up and said I topped it all off. I suspect something happend at the houseparty with her friends.
Anyway, 3 weeks ago. When I got her number. She actually asked me to take her number and felt I was obliged to take it, initially I wasn't going to take it down and just felt good making her and her friends laugh in my cold approach. She actually WALKED BACK, for me to take her number. LOL. Thats whats funny about all this.
Anyway, maybe spitting was abit much, but I wasn't about to hit her, so spitting at her, felt good at the time. Sorry if you don't like it, White Knights. Oh and btw, the Black guy did see what happend, he told her to stop shouting and closed the car door on her.
So, eventually when I looked into the car, properly. I saw what looked like the girl who flaked earlier. In reality, she didn't technically ''FLAKE''. I just asked if she was around, she said no, she's at a House Party and that she'll be back around 4am. I had asked her out once before, prior 2 weeks ago but she was busy doing homework or so she says, so that kinda triggered my anguish a little.
Anyway, I went up to the car, friendly vibe. I said "Hey, is that you, I thought you were at a House Party'' She took this with offense, I'm 100% convinced there was an altercation with her where ever she was that night and it made her emotional, because she answered me in such a manner, which wasn't warranted. Just very, unfriendly. So I looked at the driver, laughed and said, "Enjoy your success"
This is what made her get awry. My problem was, trying to talk to her again, after she was being a b!tch. She lives near me, so again, I coincedently see her parked up with this dude near her house, he also lives near her, from what she said. Anyway, she gets out the car again, and I ask her "Where all this drama is coming from?, whats up with you, U mad? She then got angry and told me to "Stop Laughing!"
GUYS, I WASN'T BUTTHURT ABOUT HER FLAKING, I WAS LMAO AT THE WHOLE ORDEAL.
Anyway, she kept telling me to stop laughing. She said, so many people where taking the mick out of her, treating her like a d!ck and some other stuff. She starts crying, throwing her hands up and said I topped it all off. I suspect something happend at the houseparty with her friends.
Anyway, 3 weeks ago. When I got her number. She actually asked me to take her number and felt I was obliged to take it, initially I wasn't going to take it down and just felt good making her and her friends laugh in my cold approach. She actually WALKED BACK, for me to take her number. LOL. Thats whats funny about all this.
Anyway, maybe spitting was abit much, but I wasn't about to hit her, so spitting at her, felt good at the time. Sorry if you don't like it, White Knights. Oh and btw, the Black guy did see what happend, he told her to stop shouting and closed the car door on her.
teacha
Senior Don Juan
Clark Kent said:
Which one is it?Clark Kent said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
Clark Kent said:
stick to your story.Clark Kent said:
Clark Kent
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She Flaked 2 weeks ago. On the approach a week before that, I suggested taking her out on set day. Agreed, set day came but said she had homework to finish and her girlfriend was about to come over. I was p!ssed about the first girl who I called, and said I lived too far away. Look in my profile. READ THE ORIGINAL THREAD.
Black dude WAS being a white knight, however I was refering to a comment made by another poster who made it look like I was the aggressor, when infact she initiated physical violence first.
Cheers!