"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You guys keep saying social circles well if you got no friends with ladies what do u

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Besides joining comedy class or karate how do u nake friends with people at a bar or mall and get in with them?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zapp Brannigan

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People always talk about social circles and how thats the sure fire way of getting a chick who's truly relationship material, but in my opinion it's not.

Friends setting you up on dates is awkward. Usually you don't even know the person until you meet on the first date, and you spend the whole time making the small talk that you would have made before asking them out. Your friends typically have different perceptions/opinions on women especially if it's a chick, and the girl they set you up with who they see as "great" is normally anything but.

You'll be a lot happier meeting women yourself. Friends setting people up on dates usually doesn't end well, and puts an awkward strain on the friendship.
 
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