"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You guys keep saying social circles well if you got no friends with ladies what do u

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Besides joining comedy class or karate how do u nake friends with people at a bar or mall and get in with them?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zapp Brannigan

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People always talk about social circles and how thats the sure fire way of getting a chick who's truly relationship material, but in my opinion it's not.

Friends setting you up on dates is awkward. Usually you don't even know the person until you meet on the first date, and you spend the whole time making the small talk that you would have made before asking them out. Your friends typically have different perceptions/opinions on women especially if it's a chick, and the girl they set you up with who they see as "great" is normally anything but.

You'll be a lot happier meeting women yourself. Friends setting people up on dates usually doesn't end well, and puts an awkward strain on the friendship.
 
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