"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You guys keep saying social circles well if you got no friends with ladies what do u

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Besides joining comedy class or karate how do u nake friends with people at a bar or mall and get in with them?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zapp Brannigan

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People always talk about social circles and how thats the sure fire way of getting a chick who's truly relationship material, but in my opinion it's not.

Friends setting you up on dates is awkward. Usually you don't even know the person until you meet on the first date, and you spend the whole time making the small talk that you would have made before asking them out. Your friends typically have different perceptions/opinions on women especially if it's a chick, and the girl they set you up with who they see as "great" is normally anything but.

You'll be a lot happier meeting women yourself. Friends setting people up on dates usually doesn't end well, and puts an awkward strain on the friendship.
 
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