"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You guy's get bored AFTER the chase?

PeasantPlayer

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All the time and I can't wait for them to leave.
I got intimacy issues anyway

With time and freedom it gets better.
Someday a unicorn might come around the corner
Same way I feel, getting tired of the "When are you going to settle down?" question...smh
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Usually I enjoy girl's company for days or weeks or even a month depending on how cool given girl is... after that I start distancing myself and they start really chasing me. Kinda sad.
 

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Usually I enjoy girl's company for days or weeks or even a month depending on how cool given girl is... after that I start distancing myself and they start really chasing me. Kinda sad.
Like some robots?
 

marmel75

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Yeah, that's normal, keep doing it.

Hirarious anecdote:

(Okay it's not hilarious it's just a regular story...)

This girl I met was smoking hot, we kinda jointly initiated contact with each other, kind of weird but yeah... Anyway she was hot, then she started being VERY VERY clingy and crazy about me once I said I'd go out with her, next day I met up she was like I don't ****ing know. She was telling people to get off their seats so me and my friends could sit down and stuff like that... Then she made some little kids get off the zipline because me and my mates wanted to go on it (we were younger then as you can tell :p) and it reallllly turned me off even though she was literally smoking hot, then she got pissed off and left, then I REALLY fancied her again, so I said I do like her really it was just my friends were there so I couldn't do anything with her, so she met me the next day the same and I went off her again because she was clingy... So she told me if I didn't kiss her she'd kick me in the balls :( Then she got annoyed and left... Now I kick myself constantly for not going along with it...

Fuuuu-
Lol...hey, I get it hot chicks can be really annoying but you just kind of deal with it until you get that p*ssy and then you can dump her ass...or just keep her around as a FB so the only sounds coming out of her mouth are going to be the sounds of her sucking you c0ck and the sounds of her screaming as you are pounding her senseless...

then when you are laying there afterwards and she starts annoying you, you just kick her out. She gets pissed, but becomes more attracted to you at the same time. See? Problem solved.
 

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I'm in a weird position that whenever i "get the girl" or have sex with her, after that i lose ALL intrest and it's a struggle to carry on with that girl.

It's the same with every girl ...

Anyone else feel the same?.
This is my biggest problem!

I've never had a serious relationship last longer than a year. I just get bored after we have sex a few times. Most women are pretty lame and annoying outside of sex. They are either boring as f*ck or annoying as f*ck. I mostly like spending time with women for the eye candy.. not really for their company.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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happens all the time. I've realized that it's because all im going after is the s3x.
 
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