Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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You guy's get bored AFTER the chase?

PeasantPlayer

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All the time and I can't wait for them to leave.
I got intimacy issues anyway

With time and freedom it gets better.
Someday a unicorn might come around the corner
Same way I feel, getting tired of the "When are you going to settle down?" question...smh
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Usually I enjoy girl's company for days or weeks or even a month depending on how cool given girl is... after that I start distancing myself and they start really chasing me. Kinda sad.
 

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Usually I enjoy girl's company for days or weeks or even a month depending on how cool given girl is... after that I start distancing myself and they start really chasing me. Kinda sad.
Like some robots?
 

marmel75

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Yeah, that's normal, keep doing it.

Hirarious anecdote:

(Okay it's not hilarious it's just a regular story...)

This girl I met was smoking hot, we kinda jointly initiated contact with each other, kind of weird but yeah... Anyway she was hot, then she started being VERY VERY clingy and crazy about me once I said I'd go out with her, next day I met up she was like I don't ****ing know. She was telling people to get off their seats so me and my friends could sit down and stuff like that... Then she made some little kids get off the zipline because me and my mates wanted to go on it (we were younger then as you can tell :p) and it reallllly turned me off even though she was literally smoking hot, then she got pissed off and left, then I REALLY fancied her again, so I said I do like her really it was just my friends were there so I couldn't do anything with her, so she met me the next day the same and I went off her again because she was clingy... So she told me if I didn't kiss her she'd kick me in the balls :( Then she got annoyed and left... Now I kick myself constantly for not going along with it...

Fuuuu-
Lol...hey, I get it hot chicks can be really annoying but you just kind of deal with it until you get that p*ssy and then you can dump her ass...or just keep her around as a FB so the only sounds coming out of her mouth are going to be the sounds of her sucking you c0ck and the sounds of her screaming as you are pounding her senseless...

then when you are laying there afterwards and she starts annoying you, you just kick her out. She gets pissed, but becomes more attracted to you at the same time. See? Problem solved.
 

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I'm in a weird position that whenever i "get the girl" or have sex with her, after that i lose ALL intrest and it's a struggle to carry on with that girl.

It's the same with every girl ...

Anyone else feel the same?.
This is my biggest problem!

I've never had a serious relationship last longer than a year. I just get bored after we have sex a few times. Most women are pretty lame and annoying outside of sex. They are either boring as f*ck or annoying as f*ck. I mostly like spending time with women for the eye candy.. not really for their company.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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happens all the time. I've realized that it's because all im going after is the s3x.
 
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