DJArlington
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are any of your friends bad asses / if so, what makes them a bad ass? also, are they good looking? can a so so looking guy be considered a bad boy?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you guys ever know a bad boy
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Why, are you looking for some gay badboy action?
DJArlington
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heck no, i'm just asking if any of you know a guy women consider to be a "bad ass" - i just want to know how they act, why they get a lot of chicks, etc.
bad boy, what are we 15 years old or something? the "bad boy" that you say usually just does what is taught here. confident, ****y etc. but i guess... they'd be wearing a leather jacket, jeans... spikey hair (or combed back) - maybe chain around the neck. smoking ciggarette/cigar... bad ass car. you get the idea. but then it just all comes down to personality and your attitude. looks ain't sh!t... just a bonus.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Floridaboy23
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yeah, I've got a friend who's basically a con artist although not one who prospers from it....he's actually quite destructive and pretty much an alcoholic. He's about 6'2 and ranging anywhere from 185-210 pounds depending how he's been eating, if he's got a girl who's housing him. lol He's been to jail quite a few times and just has that manipulative mentality about him....never revealing his true feelings, always keeps everything in disguise his natural wit/humor. By looking at him, I'd say his face is pretty symmetrical although he's not Brad Pitt, he's hung like a horse, and is just really subtle about everything. Although he can be crude and grotesque and shows many different faces so that nobody can predict what he's thinking, what he's gonna do or say. I'll bet that although most of the girls he's been around while I'm hanging out with him seem to respond to him and you know he'd f*** them if he were alone with them. The impression I get is that even some women who might look at a picture of him and not really be particularly attracted to him would ultimately be charmed 9 times out of 10 if they were to be around him for a while. I've tried to acquire some of his better traits but he's so deceptive it's really hard to put into practice.