DJArlington
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are any of your friends bad asses / if so, what makes them a bad ass? also, are they good looking? can a so so looking guy be considered a bad boy?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
you guys ever know a bad boy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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DJArlington
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heck no, i'm just asking if any of you know a guy women consider to be a "bad ass" - i just want to know how they act, why they get a lot of chicks, etc.
bad boy, what are we 15 years old or something? the "bad boy" that you say usually just does what is taught here. confident, ****y etc. but i guess... they'd be wearing a leather jacket, jeans... spikey hair (or combed back) - maybe chain around the neck. smoking ciggarette/cigar... bad ass car. you get the idea. but then it just all comes down to personality and your attitude. looks ain't sh!t... just a bonus.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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yeah, I've got a friend who's basically a con artist although not one who prospers from it....he's actually quite destructive and pretty much an alcoholic. He's about 6'2 and ranging anywhere from 185-210 pounds depending how he's been eating, if he's got a girl who's housing him. lol He's been to jail quite a few times and just has that manipulative mentality about him....never revealing his true feelings, always keeps everything in disguise his natural wit/humor. By looking at him, I'd say his face is pretty symmetrical although he's not Brad Pitt, he's hung like a horse, and is just really subtle about everything. Although he can be crude and grotesque and shows many different faces so that nobody can predict what he's thinking, what he's gonna do or say. I'll bet that although most of the girls he's been around while I'm hanging out with him seem to respond to him and you know he'd f*** them if he were alone with them. The impression I get is that even some women who might look at a picture of him and not really be particularly attracted to him would ultimately be charmed 9 times out of 10 if they were to be around him for a while. I've tried to acquire some of his better traits but he's so deceptive it's really hard to put into practice.