DJArlington
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are any of your friends bad asses / if so, what makes them a bad ass? also, are they good looking? can a so so looking guy be considered a bad boy?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
you guys ever know a bad boy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Why, are you looking for some gay badboy action?
DJArlington
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heck no, i'm just asking if any of you know a guy women consider to be a "bad ass" - i just want to know how they act, why they get a lot of chicks, etc.
bad boy, what are we 15 years old or something? the "bad boy" that you say usually just does what is taught here. confident, ****y etc. but i guess... they'd be wearing a leather jacket, jeans... spikey hair (or combed back) - maybe chain around the neck. smoking ciggarette/cigar... bad ass car. you get the idea. but then it just all comes down to personality and your attitude. looks ain't sh!t... just a bonus.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Floridaboy23
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yeah, I've got a friend who's basically a con artist although not one who prospers from it....he's actually quite destructive and pretty much an alcoholic. He's about 6'2 and ranging anywhere from 185-210 pounds depending how he's been eating, if he's got a girl who's housing him. lol He's been to jail quite a few times and just has that manipulative mentality about him....never revealing his true feelings, always keeps everything in disguise his natural wit/humor. By looking at him, I'd say his face is pretty symmetrical although he's not Brad Pitt, he's hung like a horse, and is just really subtle about everything. Although he can be crude and grotesque and shows many different faces so that nobody can predict what he's thinking, what he's gonna do or say. I'll bet that although most of the girls he's been around while I'm hanging out with him seem to respond to him and you know he'd f*** them if he were alone with them. The impression I get is that even some women who might look at a picture of him and not really be particularly attracted to him would ultimately be charmed 9 times out of 10 if they were to be around him for a while. I've tried to acquire some of his better traits but he's so deceptive it's really hard to put into practice.