"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jan7519 said:
most of you will make the women laugh while trying to qualify.
Yes, you are correct. I make women laugh - and it works very well in making them moan a few hours later. Context of the girls relationship and mine DOES NOT MATTER. Having fun with each other is what matters.


jan7519 said:
And if you do succeeded in creating the image of someone with the capacity of qualifying, being that you are innate losers she will see it in due time.
Why assume that just because we qualify women that that somehow makes us fake???? That's illogical.... which makes me think you are a woman. Your emotions own the strap-on; your logic owns the @sshole.


jan7519 said:
Have any of you considered the negative effects of so many female partners before marriage.
Have you ever considered the positive?


jan7519 said:
It turns sex into nothing but a habitual exercise of "busting a nut" and leaves no room for passion and intimacy.
I have VERY PASSIONATE sex whenever i have sex. The women im with - i maintain some kind of relationship with (FBs or more, but never exclusive.) It lasts for years sometimes. "Love" gets thrown around. I enjoy their company; they enjoy mine. Nothing is sexier than a woman smiling a smile that i put on her face. In the end - that will make me a better lover for a woman if i ever do decide to do something as crazy as marry.


jan7519 said:
I am not preaching abstinence but I would have to say that a man being an easy lay does not show any sort of self restraint or self respect.
I've rejected more women than i've slept with. A LOT more. But when the vibe is there - - - the passion becomes infinite.
 

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15% of women send themselves flowers on valentine's , jan's obviously one of them!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well, married 14 years and divorced. As long as I didn't try to please her,we had a good marriage. When I let the little things slide-big things came down the pike and we ended up getting a divorce because she was incapable of understanding I had rules that couldn't be broken.
If I'd cracked the whip a little more,maybe we'd still be married. IF I ever do it again, it will be "my way or the highway",there's the freaking DOOR!
 

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thedude4242 said:
that has to be a bitter woman.
Actually no,..unless guru1000 is a woman too.

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