AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Good! Keep it up!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You guys are all losers!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SlyD4rK
Don Juan
That goes in my signature.Originally posted by AC/DC
SURPRISE! There's always some other guy. And the most confident and secure guy wins.
A-FVCKING-MEN!!!
Reall guys how many of you make a consistant and hardworking effort at this stuff??!?! Answer me honestly, Could you be doing better for yourself?
I bet about 10% would say yes (this excludes trolls and keyboard jockys)
Reall guys how many of you make a consistant and hardworking effort at this stuff??!?! Answer me honestly, Could you be doing better for yourself?
I bet about 10% would say yes (this excludes trolls and keyboard jockys)
[]D [] []V[] []D
Senior Don Juan
yo.. i dont get why u like to have so much XXX... like... what if you get AIDS or STDs...how do you avoid this.
[No im not gay]
[No im not gay]
Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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Immigrant parents mean 10:30 PM bed time, or asskicking (and my dad is 6'2, 210, and used to be a pro boxer before he went into banking, so I can't do crap). Got no choice. XD
Anyway, my problem is I don't really have anything about myself that bothers me. I say the wrong thing sometimes, but I've been working on that on years and have never let up, but besides that, it doesn't bother me that I'm skinny, fugly, etc. So there's no motivation to change. I also have no initiative to date/f*ck girls. I mean, we all get horny, but my lack of gfs/sex has never really been a problem.
So yea. I don't have the usual AFC problems (lack of conversational skills, nerdiness, pimply face, etc, though I'm selfconscious about a scar I got on my eyebrow as a kid), and motivation is the issue. I've resolved to get down to business starting this summer, when I get some pimp wheels.
Anyway, my problem is I don't really have anything about myself that bothers me. I say the wrong thing sometimes, but I've been working on that on years and have never let up, but besides that, it doesn't bother me that I'm skinny, fugly, etc. So there's no motivation to change. I also have no initiative to date/f*ck girls. I mean, we all get horny, but my lack of gfs/sex has never really been a problem.
So yea. I don't have the usual AFC problems (lack of conversational skills, nerdiness, pimply face, etc, though I'm selfconscious about a scar I got on my eyebrow as a kid), and motivation is the issue. I've resolved to get down to business starting this summer, when I get some pimp wheels.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
[]D [] []V[] []D
Senior Don Juan
Ever heard of russel peters?Immigrant parents mean 10:30 PM bed time, or asskicking (and my dad is 6'2, 210, and used to be a pro boxer before he went into banking, so I can't do crap). Got no choice. XD
Go through the routine...
You: "F*ck you dad!"
Him: "Whad you say to me, do i look like michael's mom?"
You: "Wow what'r u doing? If you hurt me, I'm gonna call children's aid"
Him: "OoOoOohh... let me get you the phone, tough guy~!"
You: "What? What're you doing??"
Him: "I know that if you call children's aid, it'll take them 25min to get here... in that time SOMEBODY GONNA GET A HURT REAL BAD!"
lol jks..
coolguy676767
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Great post, I am an identical point as you, but about a year behind because my transformation didnt happen until last year during my junior year and I am a senior now.
I got your aim screen name from your profile, I will hit you up with an IM sometime, cause you seem like a pretty cool guy who has is head on straight, if your not into talking just let me know.
I got your aim screen name from your profile, I will hit you up with an IM sometime, cause you seem like a pretty cool guy who has is head on straight, if your not into talking just let me know.
Hell, the only homework I have is usually Algebra 2/3. And I'm not going to waste my time on something that's 15% of my grade. lol.
I go to bed at 4, get up at 8. School starts at 8:15 here. lol.
AC/DC is right again. It's pretty simple, and practice will get you to where he is.
I started this at the beginning of my of my sophmore year, and I hooked up with a chick before the end of a semester. Hot make out session on my bed, would have gone farther, but her dad called. lol.
Learn it.
I go to bed at 4, get up at 8. School starts at 8:15 here. lol.
AC/DC is right again. It's pretty simple, and practice will get you to where he is.
I started this at the beginning of my of my sophmore year, and I hooked up with a chick before the end of a semester. Hot make out session on my bed, would have gone farther, but her dad called. lol.
Learn it.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Sex is like driving. You need to be cautious, safe, and enjoy it.Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
yo.. i dont get why u like to have so much XXX... like... what if you get AIDS or STDs...how do you avoid this.
[No im not gay]
Wrap your tool when you have sex. Make sure you know who your partner is.