onlysmiles
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what does it mean if you give a girl your number, but she tells you to call her?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
you give girl your number
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- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
onlysmiles
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sorry forgot to say i never got her number. SHE ask and got my number, but wants me to call her - which i dont have a number to call.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It's a sneaky way for a girl to reject you. When she asks for your number she is making you think that she likes you. She is hoping that it will appease you and that you will leave her alone. Do not expect her to call. If she does call I'd be completely surprised.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nismo-4
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Never give a girl your number without getting hers. She's adding that sh*t to her trophy collection of AFC phone #'s. Don't expect the girl to call. Get a # from the girl and dial it in front of her. This will ensure a right #. It won't ensure a date or a relationship.
Give me your number. I'll give you a call. (W0manese: I want to let you down easy. I hope you eventually leave me alone.)
Get the girl's # at all costs.
Give me your number. I'll give you a call. (W0manese: I want to let you down easy. I hope you eventually leave me alone.)
Get the girl's # at all costs.
tony-montana
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well that's a load of crap. ive had girls ask for my number and i wasn't even interested in them. and they were texting me all night. i didnt even want their number. but yeah some girls ask for guys numbers. although one not long ago asked for mine she even ran after me out the party cause i was about to leave just to get my number. but she never even called or txt (good for me cause i have a gf already). but yeah. weird.