"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you give girl your number

onlysmiles

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what does it mean if you give a girl your number, but she tells you to call her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warrior74

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you should be calling her anyway. stop expecting girls to call.
 

onlysmiles

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sorry forgot to say i never got her number. SHE ask and got my number, but wants me to call her - which i dont have a number to call.
 

mcpwn

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givign a girl ur number is like getting rejected, i used to do it in AFC times
 

Maxtro

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It's a sneaky way for a girl to reject you. When she asks for your number she is making you think that she likes you. She is hoping that it will appease you and that you will leave her alone. Do not expect her to call. If she does call I'd be completely surprised.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nismo-4

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Never give a girl your number without getting hers. She's adding that sh*t to her trophy collection of AFC phone #'s. Don't expect the girl to call. Get a # from the girl and dial it in front of her. This will ensure a right #. It won't ensure a date or a relationship.

Give me your number. I'll give you a call. (W0manese: I want to let you down easy. I hope you eventually leave me alone.)

Get the girl's # at all costs.
 

tony-montana

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well that's a load of crap. ive had girls ask for my number and i wasn't even interested in them. and they were texting me all night. i didnt even want their number. but yeah some girls ask for guys numbers. although one not long ago asked for mine she even ran after me out the party cause i was about to leave just to get my number. but she never even called or txt (good for me cause i have a gf already). but yeah. weird.
 
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