onlysmiles
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what does it mean if you give a girl your number, but she tells you to call her?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
you give girl your number
- Thread starter onlysmiles
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
onlysmiles
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sorry forgot to say i never got her number. SHE ask and got my number, but wants me to call her - which i dont have a number to call.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It's a sneaky way for a girl to reject you. When she asks for your number she is making you think that she likes you. She is hoping that it will appease you and that you will leave her alone. Do not expect her to call. If she does call I'd be completely surprised.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
nismo-4
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Never give a girl your number without getting hers. She's adding that sh*t to her trophy collection of AFC phone #'s. Don't expect the girl to call. Get a # from the girl and dial it in front of her. This will ensure a right #. It won't ensure a date or a relationship.
Give me your number. I'll give you a call. (W0manese: I want to let you down easy. I hope you eventually leave me alone.)
Get the girl's # at all costs.
Give me your number. I'll give you a call. (W0manese: I want to let you down easy. I hope you eventually leave me alone.)
Get the girl's # at all costs.
tony-montana
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well that's a load of crap. ive had girls ask for my number and i wasn't even interested in them. and they were texting me all night. i didnt even want their number. but yeah some girls ask for guys numbers. although one not long ago asked for mine she even ran after me out the party cause i was about to leave just to get my number. but she never even called or txt (good for me cause i have a gf already). but yeah. weird.