onlysmiles
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what does it mean if you give a girl your number, but she tells you to call her?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
you give girl your number
- Thread starter onlysmiles
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
onlysmiles
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sorry forgot to say i never got her number. SHE ask and got my number, but wants me to call her - which i dont have a number to call.
Maxtro
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It's a sneaky way for a girl to reject you. When she asks for your number she is making you think that she likes you. She is hoping that it will appease you and that you will leave her alone. Do not expect her to call. If she does call I'd be completely surprised.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
nismo-4
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Never give a girl your number without getting hers. She's adding that sh*t to her trophy collection of AFC phone #'s. Don't expect the girl to call. Get a # from the girl and dial it in front of her. This will ensure a right #. It won't ensure a date or a relationship.
Give me your number. I'll give you a call. (W0manese: I want to let you down easy. I hope you eventually leave me alone.)
Get the girl's # at all costs.
Give me your number. I'll give you a call. (W0manese: I want to let you down easy. I hope you eventually leave me alone.)
Get the girl's # at all costs.
tony-montana
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well that's a load of crap. ive had girls ask for my number and i wasn't even interested in them. and they were texting me all night. i didnt even want their number. but yeah some girls ask for guys numbers. although one not long ago asked for mine she even ran after me out the party cause i was about to leave just to get my number. but she never even called or txt (good for me cause i have a gf already). but yeah. weird.