"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You gf txts you saying she is bored at work..
- Thread starter inzone50
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MacAvoy
Banned
Just don't use it with them.
Worst advice ever...MacAvoy said:I wouldn't or I would reply I'm busy. Don't get into txt'ing with women, its the devil's candy. They can get into convos without you ever being able to call them out. They can ignore you but if you ignore them, your an azz,
Just don't use it with them.
Nikos75
Don Juan
Just call her and arrange to meet her soon after her work- or better yet, go and pick her up. Say that you've got plans to reward her for having to suffer at work.
This way she'll be anticipating seeing you instead of being bored.
Ha, that all depends on the phone you have. I have a full keyboard so texting is no problem. I'll tell ya what, ever since I got my new phone with the full keyboard my opinion of texting has gone way up.Nikos75 said:Texting? Who's got the time to write in these tiny phone-keyboards.
Just call her and arrange to meet her soon after her work- or better yet, go and pick her up. Say that you've got plans to reward her for having to suffer at work.
This way she'll be anticipating seeing you instead of being bored.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2007
- Messages
- 4,679
- Reaction score
- 102
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2007
- Messages
- 4,679
- Reaction score
- 102
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2007
- Messages
- 4,679
- Reaction score
- 102
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.