"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You gf txts you saying she is bored at work..
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MacAvoy
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Just don't use it with them.
Worst advice ever...MacAvoy said:I wouldn't or I would reply I'm busy. Don't get into txt'ing with women, its the devil's candy. They can get into convos without you ever being able to call them out. They can ignore you but if you ignore them, your an azz,
Just don't use it with them.
Nikos75
Don Juan
Just call her and arrange to meet her soon after her work- or better yet, go and pick her up. Say that you've got plans to reward her for having to suffer at work.
This way she'll be anticipating seeing you instead of being bored.
Ha, that all depends on the phone you have. I have a full keyboard so texting is no problem. I'll tell ya what, ever since I got my new phone with the full keyboard my opinion of texting has gone way up.Nikos75 said:Texting? Who's got the time to write in these tiny phone-keyboards.
Just call her and arrange to meet her soon after her work- or better yet, go and pick her up. Say that you've got plans to reward her for having to suffer at work.
This way she'll be anticipating seeing you instead of being bored.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.