"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You gf txts you saying she is bored at work..
- Thread starter inzone50
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MacAvoy
Banned
Just don't use it with them.
Worst advice ever...MacAvoy said:I wouldn't or I would reply I'm busy. Don't get into txt'ing with women, its the devil's candy. They can get into convos without you ever being able to call them out. They can ignore you but if you ignore them, your an azz,
Just don't use it with them.
Nikos75
Don Juan
Just call her and arrange to meet her soon after her work- or better yet, go and pick her up. Say that you've got plans to reward her for having to suffer at work.
This way she'll be anticipating seeing you instead of being bored.
Ha, that all depends on the phone you have. I have a full keyboard so texting is no problem. I'll tell ya what, ever since I got my new phone with the full keyboard my opinion of texting has gone way up.Nikos75 said:Texting? Who's got the time to write in these tiny phone-keyboards.
Just call her and arrange to meet her soon after her work- or better yet, go and pick her up. Say that you've got plans to reward her for having to suffer at work.
This way she'll be anticipating seeing you instead of being bored.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.