Dhoulmagus
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No point in trying to figure out the mystery, but most likely there was another guy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You don't need a reason why she lost interest
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
devilkingx2
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disagree, you must first ascertain if it was you or her, and if it was you, what you did so you can learn and grow, and if it was her, what red flags/warning signs you missed so you don't run into that problem/girls like her again.
Dhoulmagus
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How will you really know unless you beg for an answer. Even if you do get an answer it will most likely be bull ****. Most likely its sloot logic or another guy. If you ******* up than the answer would be apparent.devilkingx2 said:
Ya, I mean if it is something you did and is straight up obvious enough to think to yourself "Uhhh... that probably wasn't the best thing I could have done" then learn from it. But if no reason immediately comes to mind, forget about it and move on. Wasting time trying to figure out the whys of a woman's emotional roller coaster is exactly that, a waste of time.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.