“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You don't need a reason why she lost interest

Dhoulmagus

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No point in trying to figure out the mystery, but most likely there was another guy.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Disagree.

You want to ensure you don't keep making the same mistakes. Just don't get to caught up on it.
 

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disagree, you must first ascertain if it was you or her, and if it was you, what you did so you can learn and grow, and if it was her, what red flags/warning signs you missed so you don't run into that problem/girls like her again.
 

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devilkingx2 said:
disagree, you must first ascertain if it was you or her, and if it was you, what you did so you can learn and grow, and if it was her, what red flags/warning signs you missed so you don't run into that problem/girls like her again.
How will you really know unless you beg for an answer. Even if you do get an answer it will most likely be bull ****. Most likely its sloot logic or another guy. If you ******* up than the answer would be apparent.
 

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Ya, I mean if it is something you did and is straight up obvious enough to think to yourself "Uhhh... that probably wasn't the best thing I could have done" then learn from it. But if no reason immediately comes to mind, forget about it and move on. Wasting time trying to figure out the whys of a woman's emotional roller coaster is exactly that, a waste of time.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dhoulmagus said:
No point in trying to figure out the mystery, but most likely there was another guy.
SPOT ON. WELL DONE.
 
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