"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You don't like me."

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Phantasmal

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Girls say this crap ALL of the time before I get to know them well. I'm a fairly quiet guy, but I always assumed that I was approachable and gave off a positive vibe. Anybody else get this from girls?

It's no big deal, I just realized the trend tonight when a girl said it, and I was like "WTF." Oh well.

Edit: Actually, girls that have said this often ended up being interested. So if you hear this, guys, I guess it's ******** for "give me more attention."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lomi

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Yes I believe it is, there is a chick who works at the gym who pulled this line on me a few weeks ago. She comes in to my store all the time as well and talks to me... I plan on making a move the next time I see her to get her number, I am quite confident I won't have any trouble in acquiring it either.
 
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nishbuk

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Of course it's ******** for "Hey! You! I like you! Pay attention to me!"
Afterall, if a woman wasn't interested in you at all, she wouldn't even think twice if you didn't like her. :)
 
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