"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

"You don't like me."

P

Phantasmal

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 29, 2003
Messages
278
Reaction score
0
Location
Columbus, OH
Girls say this crap ALL of the time before I get to know them well. I'm a fairly quiet guy, but I always assumed that I was approachable and gave off a positive vibe. Anybody else get this from girls?

It's no big deal, I just realized the trend tonight when a girl said it, and I was like "WTF." Oh well.

Edit: Actually, girls that have said this often ended up being interested. So if you hear this, guys, I guess it's ******** for "give me more attention."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

L

Lomi

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2005
Messages
45
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Canada
Yes I believe it is, there is a chick who works at the gym who pulled this line on me a few weeks ago. She comes in to my store all the time as well and talks to me... I plan on making a move the next time I see her to get her number, I am quite confident I won't have any trouble in acquiring it either.
 
N

nishbuk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2004
Messages
535
Reaction score
3
Location
MTL
Of course it's ******** for "Hey! You! I like you! Pay attention to me!"
Afterall, if a woman wasn't interested in you at all, she wouldn't even think twice if you didn't like her. :)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top