"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You don't like me."

Phantasmal

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Girls say this crap ALL of the time before I get to know them well. I'm a fairly quiet guy, but I always assumed that I was approachable and gave off a positive vibe. Anybody else get this from girls?

It's no big deal, I just realized the trend tonight when a girl said it, and I was like "WTF." Oh well.

Edit: Actually, girls that have said this often ended up being interested. So if you hear this, guys, I guess it's ******** for "give me more attention."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lomi

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Yes I believe it is, there is a chick who works at the gym who pulled this line on me a few weeks ago. She comes in to my store all the time as well and talks to me... I plan on making a move the next time I see her to get her number, I am quite confident I won't have any trouble in acquiring it either.
 

nishbuk

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Of course it's ******** for "Hey! You! I like you! Pay attention to me!"
Afterall, if a woman wasn't interested in you at all, she wouldn't even think twice if you didn't like her. :)
 
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