"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You don't like me."

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Phantasmal

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Girls say this crap ALL of the time before I get to know them well. I'm a fairly quiet guy, but I always assumed that I was approachable and gave off a positive vibe. Anybody else get this from girls?

It's no big deal, I just realized the trend tonight when a girl said it, and I was like "WTF." Oh well.

Edit: Actually, girls that have said this often ended up being interested. So if you hear this, guys, I guess it's ******** for "give me more attention."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lomi

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Yes I believe it is, there is a chick who works at the gym who pulled this line on me a few weeks ago. She comes in to my store all the time as well and talks to me... I plan on making a move the next time I see her to get her number, I am quite confident I won't have any trouble in acquiring it either.
 
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nishbuk

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Of course it's ******** for "Hey! You! I like you! Pay attention to me!"
Afterall, if a woman wasn't interested in you at all, she wouldn't even think twice if you didn't like her. :)
 
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